Today was wet, cold and gray. 3 things that most definitely do not suit my personality. Oh what I'd give to see flowers again! I was walking through the store the other day and I happened past the floral section they have. I smelled the roses before I saw them. Oh yes....they were that good. I know, flowers from a grocery store are probably not the highest quality. But I am so starved for something alive and growing! ARGH! I miss springtime.
Tonight, I'm going to make a wish. I wish for some long stemmed roses to brighten up the room until spring gets here and a blue sky for at least part of every day for the rest of winter. I need sunshine!
Friday, January 22, 2010
Monday, January 11, 2010
What Makes a Woman
After that last blog, my fabulous readers demanded that I write what characteristics I think separate the women from the girls. So here we go!
#1-A woman holds herself accountable for her actions- She doesn't blame the world for her problems. She doesn't whine that she was misunderstood or that someone else could have done something for her. She tries hard and doesn't accept less than her best.
#2-A woman does what she can to be accomplished- She's always doing something. She enjoys doing many things and loves to grow and perfect her interests.
#3- A woman is open minded- She takes all things into consideration and does what she knows is best with what information she has.
#4- A woman can speak her mind without sounding preachy- She recognizes that what she has to say is important and that it is best to convey those thoughts in a short-sweet-to-the-point manner.
#5- A woman is compassionate- She is a nurturer. She's the go to lady when you need advice or just to be understood. She has your best interest at heart and genuinely cares about what's going on in your life.
#6- A woman is resourceful- She makes things happen and just has a way of getting exactly what she needs. When she can't get what she needs, she either finds a way or finds a substitute that is equal if not better than what she originally had in mind.
#7- A woman is a fierce friend- She does not hesitate to stand up for those she loves.
#8- A woman is honest- She will tell you exactly what you need to hear, whether you want to hear it or not.
#9- A woman has a sense of honor- She defends what's right and sticks to her guns even when it's not what's in vogue to do so.
#10- A woman loves herself- She knows that she can't truly love anyone unless she is happy with who she is and enjoys being herself.
#11- A woman knows how to have fun- She loves to laugh and make other people smile. She enjoys the best things in life and makes time to play.
#12- A woman places high value on family and expects those with whom she associates to respect that- Self explanatory.
There you have it. I find ladies like this in some pretty interesting places so it's hard to say where you'll spot them. But you'll most definitely know her once you start talking to her.
<3 Ashley
#1-A woman holds herself accountable for her actions- She doesn't blame the world for her problems. She doesn't whine that she was misunderstood or that someone else could have done something for her. She tries hard and doesn't accept less than her best.
#2-A woman does what she can to be accomplished- She's always doing something. She enjoys doing many things and loves to grow and perfect her interests.
#3- A woman is open minded- She takes all things into consideration and does what she knows is best with what information she has.
#4- A woman can speak her mind without sounding preachy- She recognizes that what she has to say is important and that it is best to convey those thoughts in a short-sweet-to-the-point manner.
#5- A woman is compassionate- She is a nurturer. She's the go to lady when you need advice or just to be understood. She has your best interest at heart and genuinely cares about what's going on in your life.
#6- A woman is resourceful- She makes things happen and just has a way of getting exactly what she needs. When she can't get what she needs, she either finds a way or finds a substitute that is equal if not better than what she originally had in mind.
#7- A woman is a fierce friend- She does not hesitate to stand up for those she loves.
#8- A woman is honest- She will tell you exactly what you need to hear, whether you want to hear it or not.
#9- A woman has a sense of honor- She defends what's right and sticks to her guns even when it's not what's in vogue to do so.
#10- A woman loves herself- She knows that she can't truly love anyone unless she is happy with who she is and enjoys being herself.
#11- A woman knows how to have fun- She loves to laugh and make other people smile. She enjoys the best things in life and makes time to play.
#12- A woman places high value on family and expects those with whom she associates to respect that- Self explanatory.
There you have it. I find ladies like this in some pretty interesting places so it's hard to say where you'll spot them. But you'll most definitely know her once you start talking to her.
<3 Ashley
Sunday, January 10, 2010
What Makes a Man
Due to recent events and certain people bugging me about it, today's post is a summary of what I think constitutes a "Man". i.e. certain characteristics that cause me to think of a guy as a man rather than a boy.
For starters, a man acknowledges his own feelings as well as those of others. When he's angry or sad, he doesn't bottle up the negativity for later. He talks to someone about it and takes care of it as it happens.
A man doesn't take himself too seriously. When he screws up or falls over or something, he laughs about it, gets up, dusts himself off and moves on (literally and metaphorically).
A man can speak his mind and do so eloquently. He's not as concerned with being right as he is with what is right.
A man knows when to be spontaneous and when to think things through.
A man places high value on family and expects those he associates with to respect that.
A man likes to be active. He's always doing something and is motivated towards specific goals. He also likes to play ^_^. New things fascinate him.
And last but not least, a man loves life in general. He loves people and wants to see more of the world. Stuck up everybody-elses are a waste of his time and they don't feel comfortable around him. But he's well liked by every one in general.
Now how would I spot such a gentleman? Well it takes some doing.
#1 He cleans up very nicely - He looks great in a suit because he knows what works for him and he takes pride in who and what he is.
#2 He asks questions- He's genuinely interested in things and wants to know more.
#3 He loves to dance- Socializing is fun for him. He likes the atmosphere of a group setting and loves music.
#4 He knows how to relax- Sometimes it's just great to stay home and wear pajama pants. Maybe make breakfast for dinner. I could see myself laying on a beach with him and just talking about anything and everything.
#5 He's well read- He gobbles up books and refers to them often.
#6 He appreciates the arts- Self explanatory if you know me ;-) but his fascination with life and all things beautiful and praiseworthy can manifest itself that way.
#7 He talks animatedly- he really gets into a conversation. He loves sharing ideas and is excited about what he believes in.
That's the basic run down.
Well there you go. Now you know.
Ashley <3
For starters, a man acknowledges his own feelings as well as those of others. When he's angry or sad, he doesn't bottle up the negativity for later. He talks to someone about it and takes care of it as it happens.
A man doesn't take himself too seriously. When he screws up or falls over or something, he laughs about it, gets up, dusts himself off and moves on (literally and metaphorically).
A man can speak his mind and do so eloquently. He's not as concerned with being right as he is with what is right.
A man knows when to be spontaneous and when to think things through.
A man places high value on family and expects those he associates with to respect that.
A man likes to be active. He's always doing something and is motivated towards specific goals. He also likes to play ^_^. New things fascinate him.
And last but not least, a man loves life in general. He loves people and wants to see more of the world. Stuck up everybody-elses are a waste of his time and they don't feel comfortable around him. But he's well liked by every one in general.
Now how would I spot such a gentleman? Well it takes some doing.
#1 He cleans up very nicely - He looks great in a suit because he knows what works for him and he takes pride in who and what he is.
#2 He asks questions- He's genuinely interested in things and wants to know more.
#3 He loves to dance- Socializing is fun for him. He likes the atmosphere of a group setting and loves music.
#4 He knows how to relax- Sometimes it's just great to stay home and wear pajama pants. Maybe make breakfast for dinner. I could see myself laying on a beach with him and just talking about anything and everything.
#5 He's well read- He gobbles up books and refers to them often.
#6 He appreciates the arts- Self explanatory if you know me ;-) but his fascination with life and all things beautiful and praiseworthy can manifest itself that way.
#7 He talks animatedly- he really gets into a conversation. He loves sharing ideas and is excited about what he believes in.
That's the basic run down.
Well there you go. Now you know.
Ashley <3
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