What Makes a Man

Due to recent events and certain people bugging me about it, today's post is a summary of what I think constitutes a "Man". i.e. certain characteristics that cause me to think of a guy as a man rather than a boy.
For starters, a man acknowledges his own feelings as well as those of others. When he's angry or sad, he doesn't bottle up the negativity for later. He talks to someone about it and takes care of it as it happens.
A man doesn't take himself too seriously. When he screws up or falls over or something, he laughs about it, gets up, dusts himself off and moves on (literally and metaphorically).
A man can speak his mind and do so eloquently. He's not as concerned with being right as he is with what is right.
A man knows when to be spontaneous and when to think things through.
A man places high value on family and expects those he associates with to respect that.
A man likes to be active. He's always doing something and is motivated towards specific goals. He also likes to play ^_^. New things fascinate him.
And last but not least, a man loves life in general. He loves people and wants to see more of the world. Stuck up everybody-elses are a waste of his time and they don't feel comfortable around him. But he's well liked by every one in general.
Now how would I spot such a gentleman? Well it takes some doing.
#1 He cleans up very nicely - He looks great in a suit because he knows what works for him and he takes pride in who and what he is.
#2 He asks questions- He's genuinely interested in things and wants to know more.
#3 He loves to dance- Socializing is fun for him. He likes the atmosphere of a group setting and loves music.
#4 He knows how to relax- Sometimes it's just great to stay home and wear pajama pants. Maybe make breakfast for dinner. I could see myself laying on a beach with him and just talking about anything and everything.
#5 He's well read- He gobbles up books and refers to them often.
#6 He appreciates the arts- Self explanatory if you know me ;-) but his fascination with life and all things beautiful and praiseworthy can manifest itself that way.
#7 He talks animatedly- he really gets into a conversation. He loves sharing ideas and is excited about what he believes in.
That's the basic run down.

Well there you go. Now you know.
Ashley <3